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Posted in Submitted by Jenbug on Tue, 06/23/2009 - 12:02.

Rachel left today. We said goodbye in the park, under the shadow of the Castle. She had her sunglasses on against the beaming mid-day sun. She looked brave.

I cried last night, for the first time when we picked them up from Tesco in the rain, for drinking a bottle of wine and chatting and saying to ourselves : “Yup, these are definitely the people we want to live with.” For the hard year past, full of ups and downs. For ceildh-swinging and rosé drinking and braais in the park.

The hard thing about being away is only becoming more and more apparent. I wrote a depro post about when Alana and Becks left. They were the first. Then Kate and Jono, our Edinburgh people, our intellectual debate people, our tenuous link to Rhodes people, went home. Then Isje and Jack, our family for over 18 months, our companions and guides around Edinburgh and our Friday night cheese and wine people. They left last June. Mark and Amy left next, in November, after goodbye drinks at the Canny Man. Amy with her upside down smile, booze-hagging with Isje. Mark -who my sister couldn’t understand.

Then we had a whirlwind of new friends, and soon a group, and then a gang- great, fun people who made the Edinburgh experience all the more worthwhile. Skye-roadtripping people. Ceildh dancing people. Girls’ night Thursday night horror-tour poker playing people. Friday night in the park people.

I sobbed about Casey in a taxi- about the cocktails we had in Harvey Nicks, about the Ambrosia at Christmas, about mojitos at every chance we got. I said goodbye to Pania outside of Grand Cru. I said goodbye to Kate at the door of her new home in London. I said goodbye to Rachel in the park.

All this time, the people back home are moving on- as they must, as they should. But bit by bit, day by day they are putting down deep roots with new people. My roots are spread wide across the globe, they span hundreds of miles- but they are not deep. They are transcient, shifting as people come and go with the tide, an ebb and flow of people who you hold in your hand for a while and then are gone.

I would not trade the Edinburgh sun on my back, the look of Snowdonia through rain, the icy wind for any thing. But sometimes it is hard.


Merry Christmas

Submitted by Jenbug on Wed, 12/24/2008 - 11:12.

Hey All

Just a quick note from me at my desk in an empty office to wish everyone a blessed Christmas and a happy New Year.

As for what the bugs are doing- Kylebug and Jenbug are ably assisted by the noveau-Londoner Jillbug (or Monbug, to those in the know) during their Christmas festivities. Jill has come up from London to join the Christmas party from two corners of the globe- namely, New Zealand and South Africa (although I am claiming Japan for Jill as well to get extra kudos). Myself, Kyle, Jill, our New Zealand friends Casey and Dallas and Casey's mom, who has travelled all the way from New Zealand, will have some lamb, chicken, play some games and soak up the Christmas spirit this holiday season.

To all our readers and families, Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.


Welcome to Icelandistan

Posted in Submitted by Jenbug on Tue, 11/11/2008 - 14:48.

Anybody thinking about going to Iceland definitely should. It is the weirdest country ever.

Kylebug and I booked to go to Iceland for our 4th anniversary (of unmarried love, in case anyone thought they missed anything). We hummed and hawed about it, because a) the package was pretty expensive and b) Iceland is known to be pretty expensive. We eventually decided to just bite the bullet and do it, based on the fact that we are closer to Iceland than we ever will be again- unless we move to…say…Iceland, and also it is unlikely that we shall have a greater disposable pound income in the near future. So off to Iceland we went.

First- the amazing coincidence. We ended up heading off to the most expensive country in the world (verification not possible) the day after the entire economy crashed. Not good for Iceland. Reasonably good for us. There was a sense of low-level panic about the economy the whole time we were there. Sitting in a pizza shop I saw a newspaper- entirely red, with a suggestion of a hammer and sickle in the background- with the headline ‘Welcome to Iceland-istan.’

So, the Icelanders were not having a good time, but with the plummeting ISK bringing a pint down to £2.50 and the Northern Lights (allegedly) overhead, Kyle and I were up for a good weekend. Iceland is a country with incredible geography. There is a lot of history and culture, but if you are used to the magnificent buildings and gracious proportions of the rest of Europe you are likely to be disappointed. You can comfort yourself by swimming in a pool full of turquoise thermally heated water, drive past volcanoes and spy glaciers out of the bus window, so it really depends what you are wanting out of a holiday. I loved Iceland, because it is just completely unlike anywhere I am ever likely to go again. The rock is black. You have fields of black magma covered in moss. That is the main feature in and around Reykjavik. You have looming mountains and a wind that comes off the sea at minus 1 million degrees. You have the best salads in the Northern Hemisphere. You have a geyser called Geysir that gave all the others in the world their name. You have a waterfall called Gullfoss, whose glacial runoff plummets towards the sea harder and faster than I have ever seen from a waterfall. You have the Northern Lights sharpening to a gradual lime green in the night sky above. And crowning it all off, you have the wind. The freezing cold, icy, glacial (how many more descriptive words can I put in?) wind.

Iceland is a country that will never fail to provide you with memorable experiences. On day one we walked around Reykjavik for a bit, absorbing the vibe of this capital city that feels ¾ like an overgrown fishing town. A lot of the buildings are not more than a few stories high (probably because of the earth quakes) and everything has a bit of a gauche feel. The land feels very young. We ate pizza and salad in a hip bar on a street with too many umlauts in the title.

On day two we caught buses frantically around town, trying to decide if we wanted to rent a car for the remained of our trip, or if we should take the preset tour busses that seemed to be on offer. One fight outside Budget travel later, we decided to take the tour buses. We returned to the hotel just in time to catch our lift to the Blue Lagoon, a thermal pool about an hour outside of Reykjavik. It was amazing- powder blue milky water against black rock, with slimy white sand underfoot and the chill breeze against any exposed skin. We froze all bits of our body off standing outside the warm water trying to capture the magic of it on video. We swam closer to gigantic clouds of sulphur than you would think would be desirable, just to get the warmth of the hot water as it is released into the pool. I slathered the ‘silica mask’ (mud) all over my face, straight from the buckets at the side of the pool. Kyle refused to touch it, in spite of the alleged healing, rejuvenating, anti-aging properties. Truth be told, once it was dry on my face it did just feel like mud. We returned to Reykjavik totally relaxed and warm.

On day two we headed out on a coach tour to see Pingvellir (pronounced ‘Thing-vellir’), the ancient seat of the Viking parliament and the place where the Eurasian and American continental plates meet; Gullfoss, a massive glacial waterfall; and the geysers at Haukadalur. I cannot recommend this Golden Circle tour (as it is known) highly enough. Each element of the experience was totally unique- from standing at a roaring waterfall with the largest glacier in Europe nearby, to skirting the carefully roped off area around the geysers because ‘the earth’s crust is very thin, and you can easily put a leg through the rock if you are not careful.' Everything about Iceland is incredibly primeval, and really brings home the fact that humans are not masters of the elements. The whole country feels very old and very new at the same time, with the black rocks stretching out across the plains. Standing at Pingvellir, where the Vikings once held parliament, made decisions and drowned witches (as they were apt to do, apparently), with the American continental plate looming behind me as the weak Northern sun set over the mountains and rivers of the no-man’s-land between the continental plates would definitely have to be a highlight of my trip. It just felt so otherworldly.

On the evening of day two it was finally clear enough for us to head out on (yet another) bus to see the Northern Lights. The Northern Lights themselves were amazing to see- muted clouds that gradually stained the sky lime green as they moved overhead, only to be gone a few moments later. Not bright dazzles as we were led to expect, but good to see nevertheless. A thoroughly enjoyable sight. The experience of going to see the Northern Lights was less enjoyable:
1. Put on thermals, jeans, full ski gear, beanie, scarf and gloves.
2. Go to bus.
3. Sit in between a loud drunk American guy who yelled: “Do you mind- some of us are really hungover here,” when the bus lights were turned on, and a woman from Manchester who was so disinterested in the Northern Lights that she didn’t even bother to get out of the bus.
4. Get out of the bus to get away from the above people.
5. Feel freezing, stare at the sky.
6. Get back in bus.
7. Someone has a phantom sighting of Northern Lights. Get out of bus.
8. Repeat steps 5-7.
9. Eventually, Northern Lights actually manifest. Stand, stare in wonder at them for a while.
10. Get back on bus and go home.

In summary: Iceland. Home of Puffins, Vikings and the world’s most northern capital city. Home of more geological phenomena than you can shake a stick at. Home of Bjork. Who could want more? Not I. Not you. Book now.

(Edit: see photos here.)

(Edit again- looking through the photos I realised I forgot to mention the world's hugest and most scary swan. That thing was both huge and scary. It tried to eat a small child. Beware of the swans.)


Shortish Longish Catch Up

Submitted by Jenbug on Thu, 10/02/2008 - 08:40.

Time passes both quickly and slowly. This is hardly a controversial fact- akin to ‘the sky is blue(ish)’ and ‘chocolate is indeed a food group’. Today, for example, has been dragging on with work things that have been incredibly hard to resolve- phone calls not returned, emails awaiting reply for a series of big work issues.

But that is not why you read this blog. You read it to see where Kylebug and Jenbug have been recently, and possibly to read a few amusing anecdotes. Anecdotes I cannot promise you, but I can give (long overdue) details of our trips.

August 9-16, Croatia. We went on a boat. It was a big boat, but was small compared to the other boats, and also when compared to the sea (the big waves coming into Split on the final day let us see exactly how big the sea was, and how small we were). We joined Isje and Jack, who had been travelling around for 2 months already, and a bunch of their other Aussie mates on a 25 person cruise. It was a riot. On day one we travelled from Split to Markarska. During the day we stopped and swam in the middle of the sea (the first time I have done so, being afraid of all the nasty big sharks back home) and then had cocktails as the sun set over the boat. In the evening we danced the night away in a Ministry of Sound club hewn out of the ocean rock. Day two saw us sleep in a little late, which was just as well because as the day went on we would have much excitement. We had dinner on the boat (and our brilliant captain, Edo, dressed up in full pirate gear before providing us with a fresh fish feast) and in the middle of it all, Jack got down on one knee and proposed to Isje in front of everyone. She said yes, and some surprise bottles of Moet soon surfaced as the night kicked into high gear. On day 3 we headed into the amazing city of Dubrovnik. It is as beautiful as the pictures, and the walk around the wall (with Mark and Amy, and new boat friends Georgia and Paulie) was one of the highlights. If you see photos of us up high holding a ‘Croatia’ book, that is the city wall of Dubrovnik. You are hundreds of feet up in the air, looking over the glittering sea, people swimming and yachts on one side, and the gracious proportions of the old city on the other. One of the ways in which we kept harmony among the group was to have two people choose the restaurant each evening, so that there was no squabbling among the troops. In Dubrovnik, the guy in charge of choosing the dinner venue chose Dubrovnik’s most expensive restaurant, which saw us forking out £36 per person for the (admittedly very good) meal. This figure is sure to shock South Africans, and make Londoners go ‘meh’. On day four we landed in Korcula, a beautiful city overlooking a quiet bay. We had cocktails at the top of an old castle rampart before feasting on pizza and wine out of plastic cups while listening to the worst band ever playing in the town square. We soon moved back to the boat where we danced like crazy to cheesy music like Westlife and American boy until the sun came up.

Day 5 and 6 were spent in Croatia’s playground for the rich and the beautiful- Hvar. This city is a collection of classy beachside bars with puffy couches and elaborate cocktails, with mega yachts nestled in the harbour and a fort looming over the scene. It was brilliant. On night one Kyle and I managed to find restaurant overlooking the harbour for supper. This restaurant had the added bonus of serving shark with rosemary and vegetables (which was delicious), so we feel that we totally won the food challenge without breaking the bank. After that it was one or two drinks, as the next day was the boat’s respective Hen and Stag nights.

In the morning we hired tiny motorboats and spent the morning exploring the Croatian coastline while trying not to be flipped over by the wake of the mega-yachts…although to be fair, a small breeze could also have done these boats some damage. We passed the afternoon swimming, fishing and eating before splitting off into boys and girls groups for our hen night. The woman heading off to a slinky beach bar for cocktails, another beach bar for more cocktails, and then off to a Croatian organic tapas bar for delicious nibbles and lots and lots of organic wine. The men apparently headed off to one beach bar, stayed there, and drank a lot of beer. The two groups converged on Hvar’s castle nightclub just in time to ring in my 25th birthday. The night got pretty messy for some, and certain boat members have compromising photographs of them to show their grandchildren. I was also lucky enough to get a Happy Birthday dance from both Mark and Jacko, neither of whom were at their prime at that stage of the evening.

Our final day on the boat started late, with a head clearing swim before our last of Edo’s legendary lunches. In the evening we had a pirate party, made even more special by a giant cream cake for my birthday, and a beautiful bracelet and necklace from my boatmates. Some low-key karaoke finished off our night in Croatia. Overall the trip was amazing. I achieved things I didn’t ever imagine I would (swimming in the ocean without being eaten by a shark, wearing a bikini in front of people, tethering up a boat to a rock in a natural inlet, and using a dodgy communal bathroom for 7 days and loving it), and the holiday was definitely one of the highlights of my year.

Three flights later and we were back in Edinburgh and back to the grindstone. Luckily we still had our trip to Ireland (Kyle’s birthday present to me) to look forward to, otherwise the transition from glorious turquoise waters and unending cocktails to the office in Livingston could have been too much to handle.

So- Ireland. Land of charming accents and weather similar to Scotland. Land of Blarney castle, the best castle in the world. It even beats Edinburgh castle because it has the added advantage of actually looking like a castle. And it is situated in acres of beautiful ground and it has all these Druid ruins that could actually be ruins, but could also be Ireland trying to up the ante. Certainly I have seen more convincing ruins (although admittedly not Druidic) in my time. We started our trip in Cork, where we experienced Blarney castle, the world’s reddest curry and pizza in a Rastafarian restaurant. We then drove up the coastline to Lahinch, a beautiful rugged part of the country where the Cliffs of Moher fall in straight black lines to the Atlantic, and the ocean kisses the horizon all the way to America. Kyle and I snacked on crisp ciders and salad overlooking the ocean before finishing the day off at a 400 year old farmhouse for the night. It was brilliant. The following morning we drove through deepest, darkest rural Ireland to get to Shannon airport, which is not the rocking party central you might expect. It was a brilliant

Other things that have happened to us: Kyle pedalled for Scotland, completing an 84 km race for leukaemia. We have a busy week ahead- as we speak my dad gets ready to arrive in the UK via Quatar, and then we are off to Prague and then Iceland. We may or may not turn on the central heating soon. Other than that, time just continues to move quickly and slowly. Here’s to a more timely update next time!


The 18th of July

Submitted by Jenbug on Fri, 07/18/2008 - 13:44.

This morning I overslept, and got into work 1:45 minutes late. I opened my Gmail in time to see a friend’s status saying ‘Happy Birthday Madiba’. Since then I have done little work, instead watching footage of the 46664 concert, birthday wishes for Madiba, the Asimbonanga video in Frankfurt, and trying not to cry at my desk (and failing).

Today, I want to be at home, with other people for whom today has the same meaning that it has for me. For all that I am happy, I wish I was driving along the N1 with the dusty South African winter passing my window.

Instead, as a form of catharsis, I will write about my memories of Mandela- few and small as they are compared to the memories and knowledge of some.

I was 7 when Mandela was freed from jail. I remember sitting on the floor, watching TV with my mom and my sister. Do I remember him thrusting his hand skywards, or do I just think I do because of the images of the day that abound? I remember the texture of the carpet, and the anticipation.

I had been watching a video at school, and I rushed out to the car to greet my mom, that day in 1992. She was a bit late, because she had been voting in the referendum. I remember her using that word. My mom was in educational book publishing and didn’t believe in talking down to children. “What is a referendum mom?” “It’s a yes/ no vote.” “ What about?” “To ask white people if they want the changes in South Africa to keep happening.”

We stayed up late to watch the Olympic opening ceremony. The parade of nations got pretty boring after a while- I think countries beginning with a ‘A’ get the best deal. Grandad was selected for the Olympics, for weight lifting. That was the year we got banned, so Grandad always tells us. Suddenly it gets to the ‘S’s…I am so excited. “South Africa.” The crowd roars…the tempo lifts palpably, noticeable even to a little girl thousands of kilometres away. The world applauds us and welcomes us back.

We went to the voting station with my mom, because she wanted us with her, and because she didn’t want us to stay at home. The line went for about 5 blocks. Two enterprising teenage boys from one of the houses that the queue was slowly snaking past had bought take away pizza and were selling it off at the ridiculous price of R5 per slice to a captive audience. Everyone was in a really good mood, in spite of the heat, in spite of the hours on our feet. Black and white people lined up next to each other to vote. Is it possible to convey how significant that was? Better people than I have tried. Angie and I ran down to the corner shop to buy Coke and chips. We shared them with mom and the lady standing behind us in the line.

We watched the inauguration on tv. The union buildings, where we often went when we went to visit Granny and Grandpa (and would sometimes get bought a quick-melting ice cream!) was packed with people, rows upon rows of people, all cheering, all in the sun, and the heat, waiting to see the new nation begin.

I love our new flag- it is so cool.

I had watched a few rugby games as World Cup Fever gripped SA. Claire-Marie and I watched the final in her lounge. I ate naartjies, convinced they were helping us to win. Claire’s family were sad- her sister was supposed to be one of the dancers in the opening, but she had been too ill. Claire and I were un-affected, with the unselfconsciousness of our 12 year old’s grasp of propriety. Our eyes were glued on Joost, not wanting him to get hurt. Willing James to tackle Jomo and keep him down. Nail biting. Naartjie after naartjie- what if I stopped eating them and we lost? We won! Mandela presented Francois with the trophy. Claire and I went out into her front garden to do cartwheels. The streets were at a standstill with hooting cars- later the same would happen with the African Cup of Nations, but this time vuvuzelas would mingle to create the music of an elated people.

Natasha, Tanja and I are at Natasha’s aunt and uncle’s house. “Did you send an sms for Mandela’s birthday?” Tush asks me. “Yes- but I kept it very simple. Just ‘Happy Birthday Madiba. God bless and have many more. Love Jenny”.
“ Not me,” Natasha says “I got quite emotional, saying ‘Thank you for sending our country on its way to democracy…”

Today- grey skies. I slept past my alarm clock. I got to work late. My eyes are teary. I wish I had baked a cake. I wish I could share with someone how much today means. I listen to Asimbonanga, Impi, Scatterlings of Africa and others on Youtube. I watch the video of Madiba on stage in Frankfurt. I want to cry for our country, and our people, for being so far away but for always having Africa in my heart.

Mandela is an icon, but the key thing about him is it feels like each one of us carries a piece of him- a quote, a special memory, the image of Madiba shirts hanging in OR Thambo- in our hearts. Not only does he remind the world that we count, that we mean something, but in some small way, his birthday has the power to bring me home.

Happy birthday Madiba. God bless you.


Things that happened to me this week

Submitted by Jenbug on Wed, 05/28/2008 - 16:01.

I will list them in order from most exciting to least exciting:

-I became an Aunt. Aunt Jen(bug). My sister Angie and Halfhaggis oversaw (and participated in) the birth of Jethro Guy yesterday. I have not seen a picture of him yet, but I am full of glee in welcoming him into this big, crazy world. It is, to use a completely over-used word, 'hectic' that I am now part of the second generation, that as of yesterday my sister and her husband will be parents for the rest of their lives, and that there is a tiny baby out there who shares at least some of my DNA. So, big ups to the whole new family. I will be praying for you guys. Good luck!

- I was retrenched and then un-retrenched. Both didn't happen simultaneously, obviously, but happened in close enough proximity that it was highly amusing. Hopefully I don't get re-retrenched, because losing the same job twice in one month can really get a girl down.

- I began to count down my time til I go back to SA for a whirlwind trip. Not really un-exciting, and clearly related to the first bit, but still deserving of its own little paragraph.

-I bleached the walls in the shower in preparation for the Big Move on Monday. Bleaching was in aid of the 'Please, we really need our deposit back' panic that besets all renters eventually.

-I got angry with Standard Bank. Trying to sort out Kylebug's visa has driven me inexorably into their awkward embrace, because they have documents that I need. However, unfortunately, they are not able to give me these documents, even though a 14 email long exchange ends by them guaranteeing that the documents were on their way. They weren't.

It is hard to think of something less exciting than dealing with Standard Bank, so I might have to end there.

Anyways, the main point of this post: wishing the best to Ang, Neil and Jethro!


Looking Forward, Looking Back

Posted in Submitted by Jenbug on Thu, 05/01/2008 - 10:30.

Music has a magical ability to take us back in an instant. It is a gift that is not paralleled by any medium except smell. One whiff of jasmine and I’m five again, playing with my cousins next to my grandparent’s fence, the smell of fresh braai meat wafting past.

This week, since I am doing a very repetitive job (opening and closing documents and collating the info contained therein) I have indulged in a little nostalgia- listening to the most random songs I can think of. If it pops into my head I’ll listen to it- Indecent Obsession, Bon Jovi, Phil Collins- it instantly takes me back. The Daniel Bedingfield playing in my headphones at the moment makes me almost able to taste the dodgy R7 vodka lime and sprite from the Union.

I’m no psychotherapist, but the desire to indulge in a bit of nostalgia is probably a result of a series of changes and upheavals. To whit: new car, new house (next month), new housemates (next month), and new family role as my sister counts down the last 30 days til the birth of Jethro. Although these are all exciting developments, sometimes there can be a sense of needing to stop, take a deep breath, and remember where I came from before moving forward. Today is one of those days.

It’s May Day, and that means out with the old and in with the new. The end of winter and the beginning of summer. The time of re-birth- it’s all blissfully symbolic.

Last night we went to the epic battle between summer and winter known as Beltane, on Calton Hill. Beltane is a fire festival that celebrates the coming of summer, and is the Celtic/Gaelic (too lazy to look it up) word for ‘May’. Each year the Beltane Fire Society (mostly made up of Edinburgh University students) creates a massive production up on the hill- massive bonfires and effigies, loads of drumming, naked pagans dressed only in body paint- basically, all the ingredients needed for a good party. It was quite a spectical, and hopefully we will have some blurry pics up on Ducklight soon. As an aside- although Rhodes had some very active societies, they didn’t ever have one that burned effigies while frolicking in the cold in only body paint and chaps. I think they should take a long hard look at themselves with a view to rectifyng this as soon as possible.

You may have also noticed the glorious blue and white of our Costa Blanca photos. We journied to Spain two weeks ago for some much needed R&R, and it was splendid. We took advantage of a misloaded offer on the Travel Republic website, so that a room in a four star hotel with full board was cheaper than the bed and breakfast option. It was spectacular. Obviously the scenery was great too, but the food! For breakfast there was bacon, eggs, omelette's, mushrooms, tomato, cold meats, fruit, about 10 different kinds of pastry and a selection of fish (Spaniards…). For lunch there was a glut of chicken, meat and fish dishes, cold meats and salads, fruit, and an entire dessert table. Supper was the pinnacle with everything from garlic and chilli prawns to lamb shank, roast rabbit and crème brulee. Then you get the blue skies, the gentle sea breezes, the iridescent blue of the Med and the endless whiteness of the pebble beaches and you have a simply magnificent place. Of course, the 2 euro beers didn’t hurt either. I would go back in a heartbeat. Spain is absolutely beautiful.

Looking forward Heather climbs on a plane this afternoon and will arrive tomorrow afternoon in bonny Scotland…just in time to say hello to the rain. Don’t tell her though, cause the weather has been brilliant up til now. Next weekend we head off to Milan, Venice and Verona for a whirlwind trip. It should be brilliant.

You may or may not have noticed that the brand new Ducklight Travels is up. Kyle has been slaving away at it, and now for the first time we can exclusively answer all the questions you may have like ‘Does the haka summon the loch ness monster?’ and ‘Do Highland Coos get itchy?’.

And they say you can’t learn anything from moving pictures. Enjoy!


A boring post about money

Submitted by Jenbug on Thu, 04/03/2008 - 12:10.

Sometimes, the sundries, the necessities and the luxuries all combine to cost more than you would ever have thought possible. My refrain this month has been ‘Money, money money- it’s a rich man’s world!’ Or woman’s world. However bothered you are by equal gender representation in your blog, the point is that the last month and a bit have been pretty pressing on the budget. Things that are taking up money are as follows:

1. Djurgarden. We love- and curse- him in equal measure. He has brought so much happiness to us. He has seen us through the winter. He has made carrying groceries in the rain much more pleasurable. He has also had a service that cost 2/3 of his book value, followed by a blown head gasket, currently priced to cost 4/3 of his book value. Yes- the estimated cost of fixing the broken part is indeed a quarter more than the car costs. Djurgarden has ended up being an extremely expensive lesson in the law of diminishing returns, and I am not convinced that the lesson is over yet. We are currently looking at new cars to replace him with.
2. Travel. Travelling is one of the main reasons we have come overseas, and it is very enthralling to have the opportunity to travel so extensively.However, as Kyle so clearly explained in a graph last year, when you plan holidays, we are generally paying for them several months ahead of time. Being more savvy than last year, we are generally paying for our holidays many, many months ahead of time to get cheaper rates. This means that February and March have been extremely lean months as we have absorbed the costs for Stockholm, Birmingham, Alicante, Venice, Milan, Verona, a trip home for me, Prage and a trip to Croatia in August. That is a lot of flights, and a lot of accommodation. However, as I mentioned before I am also extremely lucky to be in the position of being able to travel to all these wonderful places, so I’ll understand if the sympathy is a bit thin on the ground.
3. General. You know how it is- some food, some clothing, internet and central heating bills and the next thing you know money is tighter than is generally agreeable.

However, money or no money, life is continuing as it is wont to do. Last weekend we headed down to Leamington Spa to chillax with Louise and Rob, which was fantastic. We all honed our card skills, maximised on the human potential to eat lasagne and even rode bikes. It was great. I arrived back to a hectic week of re-launching my site, so check it out if you care. The manic-ness seems to have subsided, and we seem to be getting back into the flow of things. This weekend’s upcoming highlights are, in no particular order:
· Ice cream
· Dexter
· Tracksuit pants.

What can I say? Sometimes you have to live wild.

Ps: For no particular reason, I have re-discovered Meatloaf and Roxette. I mean, no particular reason other than that they are *awesome*. I've been listening to 'Rock and Roll Dreams Come Through' all morning. If you haven't done this in a while, you should.